Many of the problems which we live when we are adults become our children’s stage, and the vast majority originated at an early age, for not having known well channelling affection and hugs from parents to the child by both excess and defect. -Where limits are imposed without love in the infant stage, we will rebel, angry adults and worrywarts by everything that happens to you in life. -When love without limits, will be a pampered, spoiled and unbearable, child who will endure in this role until its adult stage, behaving in the same way in all areas. Hear other arguments on the topic with muscular dystrophy. -When there is no affection and not put limits, are generated children sad and depressive, causing many problems of social adaptation in the future considering that is treated with therapies to be able to cope with it. -On the other hand when it is unselfishly given affection with certain limits, we will have confident, secure and balanced, therefore adult children able to take responsibility for their own lives.Hence the hugs during infancy and samples of affection as well as knowing impose certain limits on the behaviors of children, are vital so that they feel safe in their environment, must therefore know that they are loved and so we must show our affectionately and in turn have to know who is who is responsible for over.
Perhaps today due to the separation of couples many children use this situation to make certain kinds of blackmail their parents eventually to establish an inverse relationship in terms of who has the authority. It may seem you that the child does not need and does not ask, children don’t know that need them much affection, affection and cuddling to become mature, self-sufficient and confident adults, give it whenever you can. You may not like, obviously there are more timid kids, give it in private, in the family environment. Perhaps he has misbehaved and is mischievous, don’t worry, it covers the topic of their antics aside, still showing your appreciation and affection. Perhaps retires, perhaps respect precise time and space staff, up to age 7 still configuring his personality. We should be clear that we need to know how happy our affection, closeness, and that feels safe to be balanced adults; and at the same time to know that the authority is parental because those who are they will protect and care. It is better make mistake by excess than by default, excess may have a much simpler arrangement in the future to the defect. Since if a child has not received much affection in its infancy will cost much interact with others when adult sea.